Saturday, September 19, 2015

Marriage...Sacred or A Horrific Experience?

NOOO....!!

That scream was louder than any thunder...

When she said 'NO', he ignored it as if he didn't listen, and that disgust was gulped as a bitter sip of alcohol by her. She was trained in a fashion where husband is GOD, and she was supposed to follow his instructions (Should read ORDERS) as it is. Since she belongs to him, he has got all the rights to beat her, rape her, insult her, abuse her and what not. Although she was an educated woman, but because of our so called 'Sacred Relationship (Marriage)' and its cultural threads which are woven in our blood, she compromised a lot.

This was not the first time when she was beaten terribly and he has forced himself on her. For this, she hated him to the core of her heart. She should have opposed it when it was for the very first time, she thought. But what now? Is there any end to this? What if I take a divorce with him? What society will think? Will my family be ashamed of me? Does it happen to most of the women? Where will I go? What about our kids? n thousands of questions were the root cause of this.

All these years she had tolerated this man for the sake of saving her so called 'Marriage' and for the future of her kids. Irony of the life is we don't have guts when we need it most. All the families must support their daughters in such a case. Till when this will continue? I am anguished with this scenario. Till when ONLY women are supposed to save their marriages, Men have no responsibilities towards it? When will we start teaching our sons to respect women? WAKE UP...its high time!!

Friday, September 11, 2015

Saleeka !!


Jeevan jeene ka saleeka gar hota sabko,
To anubhav ki koi ahmiyat naa hoti...
Hota jo saleeka mushkilon se jeetne ka,
To khud ko taraashna nahi aata..
Jo mil sakti manzilein yun hi,
To mehnat 'mitti ke bhav' har gali-nukkad mein bikti...
Aur agar sab apne haath me hota,
To 'Khuda' ke sajde me yun sar nahi jhukte...
Aur gar 'Khuda' nawaz deta humari har dua,
To humari khwahishon se behtar jahan nahi milta...


Friday, September 4, 2015

Human behaviour....Do We Understand or Do We Pretend To Understand!!

Human behaviour, I believe, is the most difficult subject to comprehend, as everyone is unique and one simply cannot use references from previous ones. It is difficult to believe when people get hurt by the most beloved person in their life, let it be parents, siblings, spouses and friends. More painful is that when they are incapable of understanding one's situation!!

Well, people would always prefer black and white over shades of grey, its safe and easy. Situations germinated by various events and circumstances, needs to be analysed thoroughly, to reach the root cause. Hence, human behaviour is an extremely practical subject, more people you meet and understand their views, more knowledge you may acquire about this.

I, as a human being, still struggling to understand people's behaviour, which changes, in different circumstances, and its more complicated when they change their STAND, as per their convenience.


Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Kumhaar Ki Mitti....!!

Mitti se hi rach diya, mitti se hi mila diya...
Nav-nirman ke baad, khud tune use dafna diya...
Kaise tere haath chale, aur kaise tera chaak?
Kaise tu banaye, aur kaise tu hi mitaaye?
Kachhi mitti ke dhele se, tune kya-kya na banaya...
Banaya, sanwaara, tapaaya..aur fir tune hi mitaya...
Aye kumhaar....mujhe bhi sikha ye hunar,
Ki bahut kuch mita ke fir se banana hai....