Na Bhoologe Aur Na Bhulwaoge...

Yun to hisab ke pakke the hum,
Tumne tareekhein, mahine aur saal...sab uljha diye.
Socha tha ki waqt ke saath sambhal jaayenge,
Par tumne to waqt ko hi rok diya...

Tum na bhoologe aur na bhulwaoge,
Yaad hum aayenge, to puraane waqt me kho jaoge.
Tab kya karoge, jab hum awaaz dene par bhi na aayenge,
Kis tarah khud ki goonjti aawaazon se bach paoge?

Socha hai kabhi, ki sukoon milega nhi kho jaayega,
Meri koi shararat na hogi, jis par tum has paoge..

Marriage...Sacred or A Horrific Experience?

NOOO....!!

That scream was louder than any thunder...

When she said 'NO', he ignored it as if he didn't listen, and that disgust was gulped as a bitter sip of alcohol by her. She was trained in a fashion where husband is GOD, and she was supposed to follow his instructions (Should read ORDERS) as it is. Since she belongs to him, he has got all the rights to beat her, rape her, insult her, abuse her and what not. Although she was an educated woman, but because of our so called 'Sacred Relationship (Marriage)' and its cultural threads which are woven in our blood, she compromised a lot.

This was not the first time when she was beaten terribly and he has forced himself on her. For this, she hated him to the core of her heart. She should have opposed it when it was for the very first time, she thought. But what now? Is there any end to this? What if I take a divorce with him? What society will think? Will my family be ashamed of me? Does it happen to most of the women? Where will I go? What about our kids? n thousands of questions were the root cause of this.

All these years she had tolerated this man for the sake of saving her so called 'Marriage' and for the future of her kids. Irony of the life is we don't have guts when we need it most. All the families must support their daughters in such a case. Till when this will continue? I am anguished with this scenario. Till when ONLY women are supposed to save their marriages, Men have no responsibilities towards it? When will we start teaching our sons to respect women? WAKE UP...its high time!!

Saleeka !!

Jeevan jeene ka saleeka gar hota sabko,
To anubhav ki koi ahmiyat naa hoti...
Hota jo saleeka mushkilon se jeetne ka,
To khud ko taraashna nahi aata..
Jo mil sakti manzilein yun hi,
To mehnat 'mitti ke bhav' har gali-nukkad mein bikti...
Aur agar sab apne haath me hota,
To 'Khuda' ke sajde me yun sar nahi jhukte...
Aur gar 'Khuda' nawaz deta humari har dua,
To humari khwahishon se behtar jahan nahi milta...

Human behaviour....Do We Understand or Do We Pretend To Understand!!

Human behaviour, I believe, is the most difficult subject to comprehend, as everyone is unique and one simply cannot use references from previous ones. It is difficult to believe when people get hurt by the most beloved person in their life, let it be parents, siblings, spouses and friends. More painful is that when they are incapable of understanding one's situation!!

Well, people would always prefer black and white over shades of grey, its safe and easy. Situations germinated by various events and circumstances, needs to be analysed thoroughly, to reach the root cause. Hence, human behaviour is an extremely practical subject, more people you meet and understand their views, more knowledge you may acquire about this.

I, as a human being, still struggling to understand people's behaviour, which changes, in different circumstances, and its more complicated when they change their STAND, as per their convenience.

Kumhaar Ki Mitti....!!

Mitti se hi rach diya, mitti se hi mila diya...

Nav-nirman ke baad, khud tune use dafna diya...

Kaise tere haath chale, aur kaise tera chaak?

Kaise tu banaye, aur kaise tu hi mitaaye?

Kachhi mitti ke dhele se, tune kya-kya na banaya...

Banaya, sanwaara, tapaaya..aur fir tune hi mitaya...

Aye kumhaar....mujhe bhi sikha ye hunar,

Ki bahut kuch mita ke fir se banana hai....

Khat...

Guzar gaye wo zamane, jab hum khat likha karte the..
Ek alag kism ki khushi hoti thi, khat likh kar...khat padh kar...

Tamaam tareeke hain ab milne-julne ke, baat karne ke...
Par wo khushi ab waisi nahi rahi...shayad intzaar bhi waisa nahi raha...
Wo kagaz ki khushboo, wo designer letter-pads...
Aur kabhi kabhi unn par tapke hue aansuon ke nishaan, aur unse miti hui syaahi..
Mails, twitter, messages aur calls me wo ehsaas nahi...
Sach nahi bataate ye naye tareeke....

Khat likhna bhi chaaho, to use padhne wala koi nahi hai...
Ajeeb si jaldbaazi hai sabko...

Tum Kahan Samjhe?

Yun to kafi galtiyan hui mujhse,
Par tum bhi khuda to na the...

Mana ki saleeka nahi mujhe ishq ka,
Par tum bhi har baar ishaare kahan samjhe?

Mana ki gumon ko chhupaya maine,
Par tum bhi hansi mein chhupa sach kahan samjhe?

Chaah ke bhi maine na pukara tumhe,
Par tum bhi khamoshi ko kahan samjhe?

Samajhdaar hone ka daava karte the,
Itne se jazbaat kahan samjhe?

Emotional Breakdown...!!

When there is an emotional breakdown..how many intelligentsia try to understand that break-down?

Do they name it a drama? a habit? a skirmish? or do they genuinely try to find out the reason? 

Emotional break-down is more harmful to the soul of the person...

It eats them from the inside out...

Its a slow poison..

Its a fight between brain and heart..

Its a fight between correct and valuable..

Its a fight between 'to' or 'not to'..

And it kills the person gradually...

And how to determine the value of these? If the person has gone finally..then how much loss has incurred..can any mathematical formula calculate it? NO.

Remedy is love, care, affection and understanding...

More doses are given, more recovery is expected...

To Achha Hai...

Dil ki baatein khaamoshi se hon to achha hai,
Awaaz milte hi ek shor sa ho jaata hai..
Mausam haseen hain tumhare hone se,
Baharon ka aana jana to gulistaan pe ilzaam hai..
Muskurahatein yun hi tairti rahein to achha hai,
Gile shikwe aksar udaas kar jaate hain..
Befikr hona ek raajsi shauk hai,
Har koi iski lat na lagaye to achha hai..
Yeh zindagi yun hi purani yaadon me guzar jaaye to achha hai,
Suna hai nayi yaadein banane ki keemat bahut jyada hai...

Just Like That...

World seems blank at one moment and full of opportunities at the very next moment.......Is this something happening with me only or its a regular thing happens with people at some or the other point of life?

Fluctuations are frequent specially when expectations are high..I believe!! It gets even more intense when one expects from himself/herself. The remedy is known to every individual, but how many of us are able to implement that? To be calm, to have patience, to work hard with consistency, to rise everyday, to grow everyday and  if results are not as expected then REPEAT.....Aahhhhh!!

How much pain does it take to do that....Jis tann laage, wo hi jaane :)

Aisa Koi Khuda Hota..

Khwahishon pe lagaam laga sake, aisa koi khuda hota..

Ho sakti gar itni bandishein, to ishq yun hi badnaam na hota..

Bach sakta koi agar isse, to iske ghamon ka charcha yun mashhoor na hota..

Ki har jagah, har waqt, koi barbaad na hota..